someone PLEASE explain to me..

What I don't understand is why when people know they need to get out of a relationship they don't do it. They themselves will say I'm tired of it and I'm done it's over nothing is going to make me stay then an hour later they say I couldn't do it. They were crying telling me I'll change everything will be different. Now how many times have people heard that and happen to be emotionally hurt, physically injured, or worse dead. All because their partner said it would be different this time. What makes this time different from the hundred other times they said it would be different or they would change?

1-You shouldn't have to change anyone

2-Why all of a sudden now they realize their fucking up and on the verge to lose the best thing going for them?

I'm just going to take a shot at this but could it be because their selfish asses who only think of themselves.

I've had sisters and friends who stood with complete assholes all because their significant other said I love you, I don't want to lose you, I can change, things will be different I promise, etc.. so they go back to them saying this is the last time but the last time never ends. It's a broken record because that's all you hear this is the last time.

I'm sorry if I sound a bit brutal for saying any of this but who ever goes back when they can get out of that relationship is an..how would you say idiot in nicer words...is foolish..nope that's to nice of a word..umm hard headed..UNWISE! that works. who ever doesn't get out of that kind of relationship would be extremely unwise of them. They're just asking to be treated like dirt. Sometimes I would wounder if they enjoyed being treated like dirt but when I ask they would say "NO, I DON'T LIKE BEING TREATED LIKE DIRT." They weren't like this when we first started talking...HELLO!!! nothing is ever what it seems. If it seems to good to be true then it probably is..there's always a catch. When your just friends nothing ever seems to bother anyone but as soon as that title is present then drama comes in. Now is when signs start to pop up..

-trying to control your every move

-try changing who you are

-telling you who you can and can not talk to

-has no trust in you and will accuse you of lying for everything

if they don't trust you then FUCK IT! walk away because trust is everything without trust you have nothing. The relationship doesn't exist..why? because all there will be is someone is overly paranoid who will accuse you every chance they get.



to be continued..